There’s More to You Than Your Day Job
Matt reflects on stress, emotions and the meaning we look for beyond our work.
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Full Interview · August 3, 2026
Essence Merging · Hosted by Matt Rhine
Psychology, writing & the meaning of home
Dr. Colleen Quinn is a licensed psychologist and author of Essence Merging. Her work includes a trauma-informed, somatic-experiencing specialty and rebirthing breathwork.
She discusses the experiences behind her book, breathing, relationships, and finding a sense of home.
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Matt reflects on stress, emotions and the meaning we look for beyond our work.
Colleen tells the personal story behind the practice she calls Essence Merging and how she describes it.
Colleen explains what she hopes readers will explore through her story and perspective.
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Matt points to burnout, stress, unresolved pain, and a search for meaning—even for listeners skeptical of the topic.
Watch from 00:03:12 →Colleen says there is no single blueprint and encourages people to follow their bliss, describing many paths up the mountain.
Watch from 00:16:18 →Colleen suggests the International Federation of Breath Workers directory for finding a guide, along with her guided videos for independent exploration.
Watch from 00:30:20 →She connects breathwork to exploring early-life trauma and spirituality in her own life.
Watch from 00:07:35 →Colleen says she has spent time in counseling and believes therapists should examine their own experiences; she calls love her teacher.
Watch from 00:12:26 →Colleen describes returning attention to the present by noticing the breath at the throat, nostrils, or belly.
Watch from 00:19:20 →When cut off in traffic, she says she wishes the driver well and treats her irritation as information about herself.
Watch from 00:22:19 →She says a guide accompanied her and describes surrender as part of those sessions.
Watch from 00:32:29 →She uses folding laundry as an example of noticing the cloth and the moment instead of taking them for granted.
Watch from 00:44:50 →He wants them to talk about feelings and ways of seeing the world early, reflecting on a “we choose happiness” sign at home.
Watch from 00:46:27 →She says it helps her find peace and practice staying relaxed through discomfort; this is her personal experience.
Watch from 00:49:58 →She names self-preservation, belonging, and sexual instinct, relating each to care, connection, or creation.
Watch from 00:53:50 →She calls it a primer on loosening the ego’s hold on one’s life and what one creates.
Watch from 00:55:06 →She believes allowing a partner freedom can make room for more love, a theme in her unconventional love story.
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